The 4 steps to developing a profitable relationship based marketing program are:
- Identify your most profitable prospects by analyzing your current clients, prospects and using industry data.
- Segment your contacts into meaningful channels of similar interests or needs
- Optimize your communications for maximum relevancy and tone.
- Communicate to them with relevant messages based on:
- Context (what’s important to them)
- Tone (your level of familiarity)
- Frequency (how often they wish to receive messages from you)
- Mode (the vehicle for delivering the messages)
What do we mean by "tone that reflects your level of familiarity?" This is probably the single most ignored element in relationship marketing. Why? Because it is hard. The tendency in marketing today is to communicate to a wide audience as if they were all the same. We know we can’t do that and improve and solidify relationships.
After segmenting our contacts into meaningful groups based on similar interests or needs, the final step of segmentation is identifying each individual in terms of how well we know them. We can then set the “tone” of our communications to match our level of familiarity.
In business communications you speak differently to different groups of people based on your level of familiarity, their position or title and the level of importance of the communication.
For instance your communications with family or close friends takes on an entirely different style and tone than would a correspondence to your boss. But even a close relationship may require a more formal tone if the subject matter is serious. If you are asking a family member to invest in your business or providing advice on a difficult family matter, that correspondence would not be the same as a quick update on your new address, a forwarding of the joke of the week, or even your company’s latest product introduction.
Tone determines whether or not your communication will be received as a one-to-one conversation and that you have a good grasp of the relevancy of the relationship and message.
Each mode of communication has a perceived intimacy attached, for instance a business letter in a #10 envelope is perceived as less intimate than an email, but more intimate than a postcard advertisement. Which vehicle you choose to deliver your message will be determined, in part, by your level of familiarity and the contact information you have on file.
The mode or method of delivery can significantly impact the response rate. Sending your best friend a formal announcement of your new position in a letter of introduction would seem weird and could actually strain the relationship. And sending someone an unsolicited email asking them to buy now will most likely be received negatively and may even be considered SPAM.